I feel like a pawn on a chess board to her. For me i prefer friends who speak brutal true than sweet but fake words. Other day called her home only to have her drunk freind try to question me on religion? Heres something to know about a libra, they have a gut feeling that is almost always accurate, if you hurt a libra and not be able to make it up to them fully they will use and hurt you in anyway possible over the smallest things yet not feel any remorse. Here as a person who is many time being soft spoken and caring(Pisces). my friends would say your mom is so nice. Mind & heart got twisted in and out 24/7 till I broke down entirely. However, this may cause her to push people away or make people think that she no longer likes them. They don't do petty gossip; instead, they pride themselves on being a person people can confide in. You will never be able to lie to us and get away with it.we can see the lies before they ever come out of your mouth. Even though they do love their mother, greatly, their elemental make up naturally gravitates towards mine, only on the basis that we understand each other on a level she will never understand, she is a Virgo sun/Cancer moon. Shes ugly on the inside and on the outside and she's vain for no reason. Don't assume his distance and distractedness are signs a Libra man is not into you. This content is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional. Mostly because most things I read about Libras don't feel like they connect with me. Or so I thought. However I met a libra and she's like me but diffrent. I have known other Libra women too. Scorpios are all about ruining your life and possibly planning to kill by all means. Sadness and depression can take a big toll on Taurus. Show her that you are interested in spending time with her, as this will help you ensure that she does not create any relationships that will cause her to suffer in the future. Scorpio Ascendant, Venus and Mercury in Scorpio conjunct his Pluto in Scorpio which was in his 1st House. i ended up living a lot of my life with my grandmother because my mom would not stop physically abusing me. She is a great charmer, but to only win someone over enough to get info from them, info that she can use against others eventually. This was a great and successful political move and also true to his sign. He did work hard to improvise that space for me. I am a only child also raised by a Libra mother. When he offers and insists, i decline. You can't be weak around these majestic women. They will become silent and seem to be "elsewhere" instead of trying to deal with what's bothering them. Not even the same first letter. In love, these people are loyal, as long as you are useful and fit the perfect image they have of how a life with a perfect partner should be. 2. She wrote many books, you should read one of them. Hehe. I loved him at a distance because I was already attached and knew that being fully invested would break me even more. This might take some time, but once you go to yourself first for consolation and try some introspection, you can learn how to manage your emotions around others and even figure out what makes you feel better in times of stress or sadness, helping you bounce back quicker and better than ever. I use to be a joyful person and chose to spread that joy until i actually got out of dreamland and saw reality and i just lost all hope in humanity so if reading this comment and this article amuses you or disgust you and youd rather have bitter, souless people in your life like ive become then ruin someones accidental innocent hope of life and the world. I tried several times to con myself that perhaps my gut instinct was off, I'd since found out she was a Libra, I'd never met one until then (that's a whole 36 years without knowing a Libra, I wasn't missing anything). Underneath her exterior, she may be suffering from crushing sadness. I let her into my world denying my gut instinct and being the stupidly open person I can be, shared a few secrets - thankfully nothing shameful, just emotional things from my past. I feel I am always there, I mean daily, to boost her up, just to not have her there when I need her or to even respond to a text in a decent amount of time. Kids now tell us that Mom uses people for money, and gets in an uproar out of the blue. All that's left (like the bad traits mentioned above which seemed to me like traits of a dangerous personality disorder) is formed depending on countless variables (the way one was raised, experiences etc..) we do have a dark side, but we don't all react the same way. When these emotions take over, be aware of a Virgo that becomes blunt and oppositional. I found out later they talked on the phone after my wife told me. If you are intent on finding love, Libran partners have the reputation of being the most charming and easy-going of all the zodiac signs. Exalted in saturn bring a virgo sagittarius or leo even aquarius to venus,I'm ashamed a libra represents venus,it's not love what you bring it's dirt and lies. Libra simply makes up LIES any tells opposite stories to each person so that those two people who may not even know one another, are upset about (false) claims originally made up by the Libra. Very childlike. I cant speak for every libra but i know I hate myself everyday and wish i were never born bc of how i can be, i especially should've never been reckless and had children to carry my guilt. They might have obsessive thinking and remember every bad event that's happened to them, even blaming themselves for the most innocuous things. Libras are the biggest gaslighters imaginable. Very nice guy. She balances that by verbally skewering and humiliating people. A sign of a libra man trying to hide his feelings is that he acts shy when around you. Yet when she encountered these same people "in person" she would put on her "sweet" voice and was all Libra "charm" and compliments. but im not fake and i dont try to control her life. I am a Libra, and I am artistic, love to play "wordsmith games", unfortunately my quirky sense of humor precludes anyone appreciating my "wit" most of the time. i would wonder why she never was nice to me. on the rare times i could have a friend over she was sooo nice like she wanted them to like her. Tell you sad stories, tell you that you knows them better than themselves, that you are their savior. My experience with a Libran is usually very superficial and passive. For me, it was to my defend my kids and anytime she went past the line of reason in punishing them, I was right there to invoke the one thing Librans are good at, utilizing and that is our rather sharp tongue. You probably deserved it etc. They become oppositional, but with less enthusiasm, making it seem like little things don't really matter anymore. So Im like that is the craziest thing. They will REFUSE to listen to what you have to say if you are very outspoken person. the least balanced sign. Libra is often misunderstood and seen as the villian because they are too themselves. Because the same person who, held your hands, hugged you and said everything will be ok we're going to get through this together, will be the same person who tells your weak, thats why these things happen. I, do want to move out with my boyfriend because i have problem. my libra daughter who is 17 has buddied up with my libra mother and she doesnt understand the evil in my mother. If you showed fear or didnt talk back then she would consider you a friend. But, because I get impatient and irritated at other people's indecisiveness, I learned to make quick decisions and move on. And I know there's a dark side but I'm not a dark person. she has never ever apologized to me and never will. These libras gossip in such a way that so many don't consider them as gossipers. We have been doing that since 1989 to 2004 we did hookup a few times before 1996 none since then no longer felt right. She may choose to focus her social and emotional energy on new relationships. A lifelong libra friend I'm strongly considering giving up. Checking up on me and that left me feeling so confused. So heres my opinion on us (Librans.). This ability to read people allows them to avoid conflict by hiding their true feelings. Here's why. Dark-side Librans ignore or hush up reports of pain or unpleasantness and fool themselves that things they don't acknowledge didn't happen. This article and comments have really opened my eyes. In this, I am able to convince strangers or people not too close to me, to give into me or to do this for me. You might think to yourself if only someone could understand you, then they wouldn't have to ask what was wrong (don't we all want this?!). Yes, lazyness is something theyll admit to. This person adores the idea of being in a couple and sharing their deepest feelings with the person they love. By Samantha Maffucci Written on Dec 16, 2021. I'm surrounded by Librans in my family, was married to one for 15 years and I have a strong Libran energy with 4 planets in the 7th house (including sun, mercury and venus). Today he's converted into spiritualist religion, and I hope he's changed now although a few years back he let slip something about one of his sons who he said "he is very serious" and that "he is different from the younger one". It's an incredibly difficult situation to be in when people don't believe you're telling the truth or being real. I want to know what's going wrong because I'm doing all the right things but all I'm getting is disappointment. Without support, a Libra woman may begin to behave in a reckless manner. Don't interact. I am able to bind and twist words in my favour, utilising their double meanings. The thing about Libras is that public image is everything to them. She wanted me to turn on my friend and hurt her, did didn't fly with me I'm grown and 3yrs older. he is a great father and husband. But disagreements. When Libras are healthy they are funloving, charming and very intelligent. I am spiritual and often pray for guidance, when I start to second guess decisions or blame myself endlessly for my mistakes. Libra Is Meant To Be In A Couple! i can tell you my mother is a libra and this fits her to a t. she made my life a living hell. Due to all that sugar and junk they regulary eat. Seriously wtf! The laziness, the controling, able to move from one relationship to another one. He is very intelligent and extremely good at computers/programming and logical science, stuffs which requires a lot of high IQ. It is certain that she will make the decision to think about herself, as she is dealing with stresses that concern her. RELATED: The Best & Worst Personality Traits Of The Capricorn Zodiac Sign. This helped. Very well. Libra women are sad and insufferable. She may make the decision that she needs to make changes in regard to her social relationships. Often, they can feel hopeless, but they do try their best to stay happy and composed, if only to keep those around them happy. He used to bully me when I was a child in every nasty way you can think of. If she is pushed into a conversation, then she may try to avoid specific aspects of the conversation. For example, take Gwyneth Paltrow (Sept. 27), Gandhi again, and John Lennon (Oct. 9), the love-and-peace guy who cheated on his first wife "thousands" of times and told her so. People should understand that not every Libran is the same. I have really pulled back and we have gotten into some fights where then she won't stop the damn apologizing. He will talk to you for hours about anything. OK so now she knows many of my inner secrets and treating me like nothing really changed between us except less lovey dovey stuff. HELL NO. He said she has to always be the center of attention, will continue to create major drama until she gets what she wants. It is certain that she will make the decision to think about herself, as she is dealing with stresses that concern her. It's true. They often lack patience anyway, so being sad can make them easier to enrage. I do whatever makes my lover happy just to keep the harmony and passion between us. Not one good libra i came along,what's wrong with this sign ,i mean seriously? So if i find your chatty, im out of here. RELATED: What Happens When A Libra Is Hurt? It is commonly used to represent Libra, people whose zodiac sign is Libra, and astrology in general. And I know that Libra's have dark side, and how deep it truly goes. Like someone mentioned in a comments below, Libras have a gut feeling that is almost always accurate and they should definetely trust that. She buys and bribes people with any means. Pretending to be nice is so much more hurtful than being honest. I had a long friendship/relationship with a Libra man ever since I was 15. Copyright 2023 Astrology Cosmos on the Foodie Pro Theme. LIBRA: Libra tends to swallow their anger and sadness. My dark side is usually regret which I've been told is the cancer of life. i was a good kid. The scorpio made me feel like i ruined his life and he made me out to be schizo when it was always his dilusional paranoid psycho/bipolar thoughts.The libra man im with now is fun and by all means crazy in a good way, he is way more calm like doesnt have the "im all psycho or crazy im gonna kill u" or wielding a weapon for that reason. How Can I Help a Depressed Capricorn Man? Strong beautiful powerhouses just like Kim K, Cardi and Queen Halsey. Off course, I am not going to vent on strangers when I am wronged by a close one as it will not be justified. Nor I will treat my closed ones badly if I had a bad day. One of them that you should really fear about my dark side are my games that I put you in (you are my pawn and will always be until I get my revenge or I hear an apology if not you'll never be out of my loop until you're gone or I am). Bye bitch see ya never. 7.) I'm kind of upset these dark sides don't match me. if you think you're leave a Libra or divorced him/her absolutely you thinking wrong We are spend 2-3 hours before buy/sell something so if we really don't want to leave we would never let you go. I avoid confrontations and drama if at all possible. When it comes to our fakeness, I put on a smiley face on every single freaking morning even if dying inside, because it's not fair to people who surround me. All that is written is so true. So I understood that he meant "when I try some sexual assault on him ". You want to see fire, you'll get the air ripped from your sales! I knew then she truly was that ugly person from Christmas. Considering the importance of maintaining a good relationship with a Libra woman, we invite you to look through our article collection about how to have a healthy relationship with a Libra woman, as this will provide you with a host of tools to help you successfully navigate your relationship. When that happens, I've learned to respect myself and just move on. They're short-tempered and needy and are prone to turning themselves into a martyr if they know it'll help their cause. Hard to believe? Started playing head games until we finally got head to head and she said no I never did that, we are just friends. But when with him, its a real fight not to let myself go to that dark, vindictive, ruthless place. yes every sign has a dark side. While this may seem like a negative trait, it can actually be quie . I can't believe this is how I am? They try to show that nothing is wrong. Libras strive for balance when hurt, making it hard to tell when something is wrong. Ive been so bad to you all this time. The more articulate Libras will quote Gandhi: Hate the sin but love the sinner., George Zimmerman, killer of Trayvon Martin (Oct. 5). We work from the shadows, you'd figure that would be a Scorpio thing being ruled by Pluto, but despite being ruled by Venus, our (hermit) like needs tend to make us more powerful in our endeavors when we are in solitude to let our mental powers loose. I will never approach you or talk to you because I already gotten more than a 1k people that you know and I know on my side. I hate quarrels. Eventually I got tired of playing cat and mouse with him and his uncertainty that I tried to call it quits. But that's a 1 way thing. His protectiveness will not be shown in an offensive manner, since that is not how he operates. No one believes he's got so many dark secrets in his life but only the very close ones to him, like his ex-wife who I learned, only once they got divorced, that he was very aggressive to her indoors. I will never justify our dark side. I fucking hate myself when I'm grumpy and it makes it even worse. We can seem very listlessdifficult to make definitive decisions and standards that are near impossible to reach for those in our livesand the world in general. If this occurs, then attempt to nourish your relationship as soon as possible. The males appear to be charming, romantic and very friendly. They lie and pretend they are fine. I am a libra male born on September 23rd. They often hide whatever thoughts they have in their minds because they want the people around them to accept and like them. She made me hate my dad for cheating but she herself cheat several times. Now I have blocked her on everything & have zero plans to ever speak to this intensely superficial flake as i realize now beyond the woo hoo party thats all she was really good for & coming to this understanding broke my heart. 2023 The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers on this website. I Definetly repress anger and am secretive. 1. she can do as she pleases. Super selfish people who never know what they want and live in fear of being alone, that's why they are easy to jump in a new relationship super fast. The man Libra is loyal and faithful when it comes to love relationships. The guy loved me and hated me. Muahahahaha ;)~. I have to say you have gone out of your way to taint this sign more so than they deserve and more so than your other dark side write ups. As well as the comments below. RELATED: The Negative Personality Traits Of The Scorpio Zodiac Sign, According To Astrology. Or when she brought home a kitten who was kept locked in a bedroom so for 6-12 hours ( usually for a long time )so she wouldnt be bothered because the kitten wanted to play. We crave beauty and an ethereal, gossamer rythm to the world around us..and the people in our lives.but we never demand anything that those around us are incapable of providing. Most times anything short of that makes me feel unwanted. 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